What Great Leaders Say — and How They Say It

In this episode of Remodelers On The Rise, Kyle sits down with behavioral scientist Dr. Kurt Nelson to explore what great leaders say — and how they say it. From the psychology behind effective communication to the science of motivation and behavior change, this episode is packed with insights remodelers can use to lead with more clarity and influence. Whether you’re guiding a team, communicating with clients, or trying to build a strong company culture, you’ll take away practical tools that make your leadership more impactful.
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Takeaways
Effective communication involves understanding both the sender and receiver.
Framing messages positively can significantly impact engagement and motivation.
Concrete language is more effective than abstract language in leadership.
Filling in uncertainties is crucial to prevent negative assumptions.
Positive thinking can lead to a more joyful and productive work environment.
Emotions are contagious; a positive leader fosters a positive team.
Intentional communication requires thoughtfulness and preparation.
Self-talk influences our perception and response to challenges.
Understanding behavioral science can enhance leadership effectiveness.
Celebrating milestones can strengthen community and engagement.
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Behavioral Science in Leadership
04:03 The Importance of Effective Communication
06:44 Framing Communication for Impact
09:49 Empathy and Understanding in Leadership
12:48 The Power of Self-Talk and Reframing
16:01 Concrete vs. Abstract Language in Communication
22:46 The Power of Concrete Language
28:52 Filling in Uncertainty
37:55 The Impact of Positive Thinking